Let me start by saying that if this post prevents just ONE divorce it will be worth it, if you pass it onto a friend (who is having marital challenges) they will benefit from this knowledge and you will make a difference in their marriage as well as the lives of any children who get to see their parents resolve their conflict and stay together.
A few months ago my wife Rachel introduced me to an amazing website:
We began listening and reading TOGETHER and this material has SAVED our marriage!
We bought the books (used paperbacks) on Amazon for less than $10 and listened to the website for free, on my computer as well as on our smartphones. I’m not paid by these folks to promote their website, but I want to pass it along to help out other couples who are facing similar challenges.
We had already read other books like The Five Love Languages and Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus….. but Dr. Harley’s material gave us a comprehensive understanding of what we needed to do to strengthen our marriage and stay together for the long haul.
Don’t get me wrong, if there is abuse or a substance addiction in your marriage staying together may NOT be an option, but what if you just have internal conflicts in your marriage that is driving you away from your spouse? What if you just need some fundamental issues resolved?
Marriage Builders will help you fix these issues.
Our society makes it far too EASY to just get a divorce and abandon the most fundamental relationship in your life.
You see divorce on TV and in the movies, and it seems like every famous person in Hollywood has been married 6 or 7 times. When the negative impact of divorce is marginalized in the media it suddenly becomes a viable option, even if divorce is disastrous to our lives on so many levels.
IT is WORTH IT to look at this website and gain a better understanding of what it takes to stay happy in your marriage.
Any long term couple could benefit from the concepts taught on the Marriage Builders website, your marriage is worth saving, especially if you have children involved. Your children need you in their lives, even if you get an amicable divorce you will see your children LESS because they will live under a separate roof.
Divorce is NOT worth it especially if you can “work it out”.
Check out the website, show it to your spouse, if the website helps your marriage please leave a comment here!